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Oh, I'd like to mention to any user that gets redirected to this thread because they broke said rule...

Those pairings and talks of those pairings being banned from this forum has nothing to do with homophobia, we're all open minded people, however you have to draw a line in the sand between fact and fiction. What might have been cute a few years ago, isn't as much now that they're married. And IDK if you know or not, but they hate it, especially when you mention it to them. You never know if they may come on here. YOU NEVER KNOW. So, mum is the word. You can do your whole facebook page in it if you want, tweet all day about it, do whatever it is you do on Tumblr with it, but keep it off the MCRmy. THE END.

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That deserves cookies, lots of them. Well explained :D

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I would personally hope this sort of rule would go w/o saying.

That^

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LMAO, those pairings are hilarious. But this is a good rule. As long as we know they're happy, we should let it be.

And as for the "piracy" - SHIVER ME TIMBERS!

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QUESTION

What if it's something about a wife that has nothing to do with MCR?

Like, LynZ did a great interview a while ago that touched on being a girl in a band that I'd LOVE to post in my "Girls Who Rock" thread. There is no mention of Gerard or their marriage in the interview, just LynZ, MSI, how she came to join MSI, and what it means to her to be a girl in a band.

Would this be okay or is it still against the rules?

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its creepy when people are obsessed with frank's and gerard's kids O_O glad this rule exists!

Oh god.... *dies* Thats scary.... Why would people do that??? Oh god, why are their such creepy people in this world??? Im glad that this rule was made!!!! THANKS TINA!!! You're such a big help!! :lol:

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You just need to make a mnemonic for what "personal lives" means.

Beliefs (Religious beliefs could play a role here)

Ideals (Politics might fall here)

Kids (Bandit, Cherry, Lily, pregnancy, undisclosed information about their kids, etc)

Extra creepy information (addresses, phone numbers, email addresses, driver's licenses, google images of houses, fRaNk's EnGlIsH 101 (LOLOL), stalkery)

Relationships (Wives, Bert, Eliza Cuts, Frerard, Frikey, Waycest, Rerard, Rikey, Gay, Fray, Bandcest is supposedly happening...sick in the head people, ETC. you get the idea)

JUST REMEMBER KIDS. GERD WAI SAYS "DON'T BE A BIKER".

sorry, did i hear that right?

Bandcest!?

Bandcest!?

Bandcest!?

i fucking hate the world sometimes. that's disgusting...

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Agreed. I mean... fml.. really? But every fanbase has this stuff.

I've recently gotten into My Little Pony.. and Jesus christ there's a lot of dirty pony stuff. D: D:

But that's because of Rule 34. And everything falls into Rule 34. "If it exists and its on the internet, there is porn about it."

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Agreed. I mean... fml.. really? But every fanbase has this stuff.

I've recently gotten into My Little Pony.. and Jesus christ there's a lot of dirty pony stuff. D: D:

But that's because of Rule 34. And everything falls into Rule 34. "If it exists and its on the internet, there is porn about it."

hmmm yeah... stumbling into certain places on youtube and thinking "wait, what!?"

well, if it exists of MCR, I second scrumtrulescant when I say at least it's not welcome here...

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sorry, did i hear that right?

Bandcest!?

Bandcest!?

Bandcest!?

i fucking hate the world sometimes. that's disgusting...

i know! bandcest, waycest, frerad!! its all just really really weird and disgusting!

i get it that people that creative and that this might be their way of showing their love for the band, but by writing porn ( almost all of it is), thats just not cool.

i completly agree with scrumtrulescant and FTWWW, its just not welcome here and this rule is amazing.

also another thing i don't get is, people bitching about the wives, the band does make amazing music and they do love their fans, but i don't think anybody has the right to talk shit about their wives, not at all.

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I totally agree with this rule, because they are some creepy fans, not here on the MCRmy.com, but in other places.... ughh!

I have also noticed that people hate their wives and start to insult them, I don't think they deserve that.

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the whole hating on the wives thing is ludicrous

it's probably founded on some sort of jealousy thing, which is simply baffling - you're a 15 year old girl, Gerard was never going to go out with you...

I'm personally very happy to know that all four of them have found someone who makes them happier than anyone else in the world, it proves that there's someone for eveyone out there :) but that's all... I don't understand how you could call yourself a fan of the band or a fan of a particular member and then just talk shit about someone that person loves? surely they're in a better position to know who they want to be with!? and since when did your youtube-published opinion matter...?

some people baffle me

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For sure it's a jealousy thing.

I hate hearing/reading stuff like "X's wife/husband doesn't love them like I do" from fans. -_-

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I would like to share a very scarring story or mine.... :mellow:

Once I went on mychemicalromance.com reading every post to see what people were up to! And I saw some fan fiction and at the time I was unaware of the bad part of it so I was all like "Oh cool, a story!" I read on and it was about freard... so I was all like "What in the world is this crap?" Then I went all big-eyed and I clicked out of the page...my eyes were burnt from them reading the story....that is why I really dont go on that site anymore for the things people do post on there! I like to stay here because I know we all have rules we have to follow and such things! I just have one thing to say "You type this mess! Would you show this to your parents?" Would you proud of saying "X kissing X" and showing your parents? It scares me how much it IS like porn..I think thats SCARRING!!! I just wish people would LEARN! I use to write fan fiction about a girl who took place in the Black Parade trying to figure out the way of life in the world, but I didnt sexualize anyone! Then I found out that people did such things in their writing and I quit! Made me think I was just adding wood to the fire just alittle....IF you know someone who does write fan fiction in THAT way, show them this here topic! Hopefully it will switch their mind in the right way and TO RESPECT GREAT PEOPLE IN THIS WORLD THAT WE LIVE IN!!!

Thank you everyone - Adrenaline Threat Angel XOXO!

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First of all, I'd like to say thank you BIG TIME to the lovely mods for putting this rule into effect! This stuff's creepy... Frerard, Waycest, Bandcest... Talk about the kids, the wives... *rips out eyes and runs away screaming* It's awful.

And, my position on fanfiction? I think it's alright, so long as it's not like "okay... okay... okay... BUTTSECKS!" It can be tasteful. I wrote one about a girl with psychosis and her friend in the Danger Days universe, and one that took place during SING. Proof that fanfics aren't all like... 0.o Though they can get REALLY disturbing. *shudders*

Again, you mods, keep doin' whatcha do. ♥

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